The mental load, finally shared.

Don’t Forget Me makes invisible household work visible — so the person who remembers everything isn’t always the same person.

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152
👨‍👩‍👧Kids’ dentist
152 daysoverdue

Shared with Sarah

4
🧺Laundry
4 days

Whose turn?

23
📞Call your parents
23 daysurgent

Shared with Sarah

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The invisible work, made visible.

You know the feeling. You’re the one who remembers the appointments, notices the milk is low, tracks when the bills are due. It’s exhausting — and invisible. Don’t Forget Me puts it on a shared screen, so you don’t have to be the only one keeping track.

Women do 2x more cognitive household labor

71% of mothers are the 'default parent'

The #1 source of relationship resentment

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Everything you need

Four simple features to help you stay on top of life.

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Share with your partner

Invite your partner or household to any tracker. You both see the same counter. Either of you can mark it done. The mental load stops being one person’s problem.

"We share the school run, the groceries, the kids’ appointments. Whoever does it, taps it."

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See what needs remembering

Create a tracker for anything that matters. Each one shows how long it’s been since it was last done — with colors that shift from gold to red as time goes on.

"It’s been 23 days since anyone called Grandma."

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Gentle reminders

Set how often something should happen. You’ll both get a daily email digest when trackers turn overdue — no spam, just what actually needs attention.

"Dentist every 6 months. Water filter every 3."

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The Ping

Sometimes your partner needs a gentle nudge — without you being the one to deliver it. Send a Ping and they get a friendly email from the app, not from you. No awkwardness, no nagging.

"Hey, it’s been a while since you called your mom."

How it works

Add a tracker

Name it, pick an icon, choose who it’s shared with. Takes 10 seconds.

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Live your life

The counter ticks up day by day. Gold means you’re good, red means someone needs to handle it.

Tap when it’s done

Whoever did it taps the card. Counter resets. Everyone sees it’s handled.

Simple pricing

Start free. Upgrade when you need more.

Free

€0/mo

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  • 7 trackers
  • Up to 2 people
  • Shared dashboard
  • Challenges
  • Email reminders
  • 3 pings/month
  • Web push notifications
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For the whole household. Up to 5 people.

14 days free

5/month
  • Unlimited trackers
  • Unlimited shared trackers
  • Up to 5 people
  • Household dashboard
  • Challenges
  • Monthly recap (shareable)
  • Chore War pack
  • Stats & trends
  • Data export
  • 15 pings/month
  • Web push notifications
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Expert answers to 'how often should I...' questions — health, home, car, pets, and more — each with a free tracker.

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